I can’t understand how she do it!

I’ve been wondering for ages( still learning) how exactly my mother handles all the stress and yet still able to smile at the end of the day, It’s been almost 2mths (being a mother of two) and i’m still trying to learn further the trade of being a successful mother. I’m not perfect, and i’m not ashame to say that i’m still learning.

Sometimes things gets rather frustrating as i struggle to juggle the needs of my two girls at the same time! I try to be positive so far, things is manageble so far. As long as i don’t get migrain. When that happens…that is where things gets crazy. Who gonna take care of my kids when i’m sick?

My study on my mother so far, to be a mother:

1) Always be in tip top condition. (You can’t take care of your family when you’re sick!)

2) Always have abundance of energy. (It helps when chasing a 2 year old toddler in a mall)

 3) Always be alert & focus, in & out of the house. (Danger is everywhere it pays to be extra careful)

 4) Always be patience. (Even if your kids are kinda irritating sometimes, they’re your kids!)

5) Always ready to go. (Be well prepare in everything you do)

 6) Always be well manered and be well discipline. (kids like to mimic parents especially mums.)

7) Tough, long lasting & easy going. (it comes in handy with small children)

Always forgiving. (even if they drove you mad, hey! they’re your kids)

9) Talented & skillful.( it helps in long run)

Think thats it for now…i’ll observe my mum and other mums closely to learn more about life. Anyway, real mums are made not born. We learn and improve ourselves over the years. Nobody’s perfect and so am i!

Hi candice, thanks for your concern dear! My Girl is growing stronger everyday, and i’m always here for her. Take care of yourself k,

peace

nor